Well, I thought I better post while things are going great in my crazy, wonderful, extremely hectic life. One of the things I used to do in journaling, was write when things were positive & "up" & then I could go back & review them when I was down & it would remind me that I am capable of making positive choices & I have changed over the years. Things are great right now. My stepdaughter has been chosen to play on varisty this weekend - as a freshman! (: & the best part - she always includes me in her announcement texts. She's such an amazing girl/woman! (: She tells me about the everyday girl drama & she chooses not to participate in it. She walks away from it & tells the other girls to knock their crap off (although I'm sure that's probably not the wording she used.) hehe! Anyway....she's just a great kid. Remember 14 - almost 15 years old? Girls are MEAN! I was at dinner with a friend the other night & we were just talking - which I desperately needed a girls night - especially with a fellow stepmom - and she started a sentence..."If women" & I stopped her. Exactly...what else needs to be said? "If women" - But the cool thing is - my stepdaughter realizes that already.
Anywhoo....life is good right now. Stepson is non-hormonal right now & that is a good thing. He's pre-teen & WOW his hormones are all over the place. I remember being his age & it's a tough time - but his nuts are getting ready to drop & I've determined that it's harder for a boy to go thru puberty. Now, please don't be all upset by that comment. But girls are prepped as to what is coming, we have some shred of an idea of what it's supposed to be like - crappy - but no one shares that with little boys. You know men bond by scratching themselves - they're not supposed to talk about that. BUT I WISH THEY WOULD! It'd make being a stepmom to an 11 year old boy a lot easier! (:
So basically this blog is to remind me - in the hard times when I want to stop my crazy life - there are great moments & these are the moments that I will hold on to & cherish. And these moments make all the hard ones completely worth every moment of that crazy life I call mine!
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